We just can't get enough of Are You The One and
the fantastic cast of the first series. We spoke to the incredibly handsome and
rather lovely Ryan Malaty who was one of the stars of the show about everything
and more!
Hi Ryan, what made you want to
take part in the show?
Hi! Well, I love to travel to new
places, meet new people and experience new things. So when I was asked to stay
in a mansion on a tropical paradise with 10 beautiful women for the chance to
win money…how could I say no?
Were you skeptical about the
idea they could find your 'perfect match'?
After going through such an
extensive casting process, I was actually optimistic. I knew the girls were
going to be attractive, smart and outgoing. Or else they wouldn't have made it
on the show. As far as a "perfect match", well, at that point I
wasn't sure what was perfect for me anymore, so I didn't know what to expect.
But I was ready and willing to fall in love, and sometimes, that's all it
takes.
You and Kayla were quite close,
what attracted you to her?
Aside from physical attraction, we
had amazing chemistry. It started with our shared passion for writing and grew
over time. We laughed and flirted and had unforgettable moments that bonded me
closer to her than to other girls in the house.
What made you think she was your
perfect match?
I wasn't sure if what I wanted was
all that different from what I needed. At first I thought she had it all, and
then I started to realize that I was falling into old habits. I didn't need a truth
booth to tell me we weren't a match.
How did you feel when she began
spending more time with Wes?
Wes is a good guy and he respected
what Kayla and I had going on - for the most part. The whole point of the game
was to get to know everyone, so I gave her space. But when she acted
touchy-feely with the other guys, I gave her even more space. Ain't nobody got
time for that!
What was it like in the house
during and after your argument with Kayla?
It was heaping portion of awkward
with a side of painful tension.
Jess was actually your perfect
match (we thought that was obvious) did it ever cross your mind she was and not
Kayla?
Of course it crossed my mind that
Kayla wasn't my match, many times. And it might have been obvious to the
viewers at home that Jess was my match, but it was a lot harder to figure out
than what was seen on tv. A lot of the girls were sweethearts. It was a matter
of strategy of the mind AND heart that brought us together.
What's happening with you &
Jess now, friends? Potentially more?
Jess and I are great friends! We
talk and snapchat all the time. Her weirdness fuels my inner-dork. She has a
boyfriend-ish thing going on, and I'm happy for her. And honestly, I spent so
much emotional energy on the girls in Hawaii, that I'm going to enjoy being
single for awhile.
We heard you loved the game
aspect of the show, did you have a strategy?
I love math problems, puzzles,
riddles, you name it. After being explained the rules of the game, I knew
exactly how to win it. But the game wasn't just about winning money, for most,
it was about relationships. And you can't treat relationships like a game or
everyone will end up losing.
What was it like filming the
reunion show? Did you expect Adam to reveal you'd had a few 'visitors'?
The reunion show was painful. I was
expecting everyone to be nicer to each other, but hey, drama drama drama is
what this group is good at. Adam definitely broke guy code that day! But I
never hooked up with anyone before Kayla came out to visit. Even if I did
though, I'm single, so it shouldn't really matter.
Watching it back did anything
you saw shock you? Did anything happen you weren't aware of?
Watching the show was always a
surprise. I never knew what the dates looked like that I didn't go on.
Likewise, there's plenty of conversations that happened in the house I wasn't
there for. JJ kissing Jacy in the Truth Booth was a shocker…etc. I was always
on the edge of my seat when Are You The One came on.
In hindsight would you do a
anything differently?
I would definitely be more
assertive. I tend to be so nice that people take advantage of me, and take me
for granted. But honestly, life's too short for regret.
Has the experience changed you
at all?
Almost every experience changes me
in one way or another. This show was an incredible experience that gave me
better insight into what type of person I need to be with. And there are few
experiences on Earth than can do that. I am truly grateful for the friends and
memories that were made.
What's the reaction been like
from people who've seen the show towards you?
Most people are happy for me, and
I'm very fortunate that the show was received so well. Being the first season,
there was really no way to know if people would like it. And I'm thrilled that
they do!
What's next for you? More TV?
Something different? Potential visit to us here in the UK?
Adam and I have been bouncing
around the country doing a variety of appearances. Our eyes are set on
California but there are other options, too. If I had the opportunity to work
more in television, I would most definitely consider it. Television is a blast!
I'm also working on a few book ideas. And if the UK will have me, I'd be
honoured.